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5-23-21 - Making Good Tables: The Soulfulness of Work

Making Good Tables: The Soulfulness of Work

Indianapolis First Friends

Pastor Bob Henry

May 23, 2021

 

Isaiah 65:23-25 (MSG)

 

For my people will be as long-lived as trees,
    my chosen ones will have satisfaction in their work.
They won’t work and have nothing come of it,
    they won’t have children snatched out from under them.
For they themselves are plantings blessed by God,
    with their children and grandchildren likewise God-blessed.
Before they call out, I’ll answer.
    Before they’ve finished speaking, I’ll have heard.
Wolf and lamb will graze the same meadow,
    lion and ox eat straw from the same trough,
    but snakes—they’ll get a diet of dirt!
Neither animal nor human will hurt or kill
    anywhere on my Holy Mountain,” says God.

 

Good morning Friends! Today, as we celebrate our graduates and as they head out into new opportunities, I want to take a moment to speak about the Soulfulness of Work. 

 

I believe I have shared this story before, but when I was working at Huntington University, I had the opportunity to go hear Wendell Berry and Wes Jackson speak at Indiana University. 

 

 

They happened to be talking about farming and the importance of being connected to the earth. Even though I was not a farmer, I gleaned so much from this lecture that I continue to return to every so often. 

 

During the Q&A section, a student, who I believe was just trying to get some answers for a paper asked a not-so-well thought out question about “work.” It came almost immediately after Wes Jackson said the following about growing up. He said,

 

“People who impressed me were those who worked.”

 

To answer the student’s question, Wendell, and Wes both rose to their feet and began addressing the way our culture looks at work.

 

Things like:

People today think:

·        Work is boring.

·        Work is trivial.

·        Work is what we have to do so we can have fun, or what Wendell summed up with the American phrase: Less work = more life, which is exactly what the student had assumed. 

 

Wes then said, “Work doesn’t have to be fun – but rather satisfying.” 

 

Wendell added satisfaction means you have done something - it is part of your being or life.

 

I found myself writing as fast as I could while thinking about how different this was than what our world says, or, even more, what the church told me growing up. 

 

I realized that many people I knew hated work. Now, many were simply lazy or living for the weekend. Yet some took on two or three jobs to pay outstanding credit card

 bills, while others did the same simply to purchase bigger toys, go on grander trips, live in more lucrative neighborhoods. And then there was those who worked simply to survive. 

 

I think we must remember - each person has a completely different story when it comes to work.  

 

For the past 25+ years as a pastor, I can’t count the number of people who have   met with me struggling with their work, some who have considered their work-lives miserable or a dreaded task to complete. 

 

And the big theme I continue to see is that they are simply not satisfied by what they do. 

 

My friend John Pattison writes in his book, “Slow Church,”

 

 

Soulless work is one of the alienating effects of industrialization, along with unemployment, underemployment, low wages, child labor, the imposition of degraded work on degraded people and a ream of other consequences.  But we can have a very different view of work, one that seeks a balance between taking work too seriously and not taking it seriously enough. Doing good work is one important way we respond as followers of Jesus to the work God is already doing around us.   

 

Let’s be honest, most of us were not taught to value all types of work. I remember people telling me when I was young, “Well, you don’t want to grow up to be a garbage man or work at a gas station, do you?”

 

That view changed when the guy who pumped my gas each week in Silverton (when we lived in Oregon you could not pump your own gas) became a regular attender to Meeting for Worship. I began to value his work and who he was because I was able to get to know more of his story. 

 

We would never say, “You don’t want to grow up to be a doctor or lawyer?”  But I know doctors and lawyers who are miserable in their professions and are not satisfied. 

 

And the same is true about people who are retired – because their work was so much a part of them that stopping work was an attack on their being.

 

Let’s be honest, we still categorize work by what we would be willing or unwilling to do. And that is creating negative perceptions of work.

 

For some people their work is not an option. They work for survival.  They work at whatever job they can get.  They are often grateful to simply have a job.  But too often those type of jobs are ones that sadly exploit workers.  Jobs that are not satisfying because they dehumanize people and they become estranged from their own being and the tasks that could engage their human potential and creativity. 

 

Instead, they are forced to take jobs that are repetitive, uninteresting, and unsatisfying because the world has alienated them by saying things like I heard growing up about garbage men and gas station attendants. 

 

Or too often we make professional athletics, celebrity status, and stardom the goal.  For goodness sakes, just think about it, we have a long-standing show in our country called, “American Idol” and about 20 other reality shows that create a process to manufacture “stardom.”       

 

 

What if we valued blue collar jobs as much as we valued a white-collar job? If we taught our children that ALL work is valuable and needed.

 

Those migrant farmers were just as important as the farmers, the garbage collectors were just as important as the doctors, the members just as important as the pastors – I think you might be getting this…what I am talking about is the Quaker distinctive of equality – that all people are equal in the eyes of God.  No title or position should get in the way of how we treat others.

 

As well since we often identify so deeply with our vocations.  We introduce ourselves by our work, we identify by our work, we even associate by our work.  

 

For several years at Huntington University, I taught an upper-level class with a college counselor called, “Calling, Being, Doing: Rethinking the Rest of Your Life.”

 

The class proceeded through looking at one’s calling, to seeing one’s being, and then to what one would do with what they learned.

Many students found themselves in their junior or senior year fretting over what they were going to do with their lives.  Maybe some of our graduates today are still at the place since they graduated during a pandemic.

 

Too often we found, especially at a Christian University, how much the church and its views negatively influenced the students and did not allow them to see and embrace their “being” and who they genuinely were – leaving them fearful and fretting the world outside the so-called “college bubble.”

 

Quaker Parker Palmer addressed this very thing in Yes! Magazine in an article titled, “Now, I become myself.”  Just listen to what he had to say,

 

         

“I first learned about vocation growing up in the church. I value much about the religious tradition in which I was raised: its humility about its own convictions, its respect for the world's diversity, its concern for justice. But the idea of vocation I picked up in those circles created distortion until I grew strong enough to discard it. I mean the idea that vocation, or calling, comes from a voice external to ourselves, a voice of moral demand that asks us to become someone we are not yet—someone different, someone better, someone just beyond our reach.

 

 

That concept of vocation is rooted in a deep distrust of selfhood, in the belief that the sinful self will always be “selfish” unless corrected by external forces of virtue. It is a notion that made me feel inadequate to the task of living my own life, creating guilt about the distance between who I was and who I was supposed to be, leaving me exhausted as I labored to close the gap.

 

 

Today I understand vocation quite differently—not as a goal to be achieved but as a gift to be received. Discovering vocation does not mean scrambling toward some prize just beyond my reach but accepting the treasure of true self I already possess. Vocation does not come from a voice “out there” calling me to become something I am not. It comes from a voice “in here” calling me to be the person I was born to be, to fulfill the original selfhood given me at birth by God.”

 

 

I will be honest; I wish my pastor and church growing up would have quoted and share those very words of Parker Palmer with me. Because it has taken a long-time (actually, I would say I am still wrestling with it) to grasp that vocation comes from my inner voice calling me to be the person I was born to be, to fulfill the original selfhood given to me by the Divine.

 

I guess what I am trying to say in all of this, is that clearly, we need to have a paradigm shift in the way we look at work.

 

Author and storyteller, Dorothy Sayers put it rather succinctly speaking of a carpenter in the church:  

 

 

How can anyone remain interested in a religion which seems to have no concern with nine-tenths of his life? The Church’s approach to an intelligent carpenter is usually confined to exhorting him not to be a drunk and disorderly in his leisure hours, and to come to church on Sundays.  What the church should be telling him is this: that the very first demand that his religion makes upon him is that he should make good tables. 

 

Graduates, members and attenders, virtual guests, and friends, as we go out into the world, I hope you are encouraged each day to listen to your inner voice, to fulfill your original selfhood, and go and make “good tables” or whatever your gifting and the Spirit of the Divine lead you to make, do, create, think, etc.

 

Go today and embrace becoming your TRUE SELF, find satisfaction in doing what is truly YOU, and you will find the soulfulness of work!

 

Now, for those of us who need to ponder on this and wrestle with this some more, here are some queries to lead us into Waiting Worship this morning:

 

Am I satisfied by my work?

 

Where do my views of good work need to change?

 

How can our Meeting effect change in the idea of work in our community?

 

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5-16-21 - The Hidden Secret of Being Beloved

The Hidden Secret of Being Beloved

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

May 16, 2021

 

Zephaniah 3:17 (The Voice)

 

17 The Eternal your God is standing right here among you,
    and He is the champion who will rescue you.
He will joyfully celebrate over you;
    He will rest in His love for you; He will joyfully sing because of you like a new husband.

 

Good morning Friends, it is so good to join you this morning in the comfort of your own homes.  I pray this finds you safe and well.

 

Last week on Mother’s Day I spoke about the truth that we are special, unique, and original in the eyes of our Divine Mother.  But sometimes we forget that truth, and struggle to grasp it or embrace it fully. 

 

Many of today’s modern mystics speak of this in terms of coming to an understanding that we are not just special, unique, and original, but also beloved by God.

 

 

The dictionary says that “beloved” means dearly loved or a much-loved person.

 

 

The early mystics of the church would describe this in often uncomfortable or awkwardly intimate terms.  Some would go as far as using a metaphor of marriage partners and the intimacy between those partners to describe just how beloved one is in God’s eyes.

 

 

Here is just one example of this from Teresa of Avila:

 

 

 

Who could explain the benefit that lies in throwing ourselves into the arms of this Lord of ours and making an agreement with His Majesty that I look at my Beloved and my Beloved at me . . . . Let Him kiss me with the kiss of His mouth, for without You, what am I, Lord? If I am not close to You, what am I worth? If I stray a little from Your Majesty, where will I end up? Oh, my Lord, my Mercy, and my Good! And what greater good could I want in this life than to be so close to You, that there be no division between You and me? With this companionship, what can be difficult? What can one not undertake for You, being so closely joined?

 

The reason they chose such intimate language is because being the “Beloved of God” is both extremely personal and a part of our inner journeys. 

 

Some mystics describe it as a secret or even a hidden secret between lovers.  Whether you read the poetry of the Psalmist in the Bible, Rumi’s Big Red Book, Hafiz’s Drunk on the Wine of the Beloved, or many of the early church writers, you will find them talking about this “hidden secret.” 

 

Even Jesus himself applauds God in Matthew for “hiding these things from the learned and the clever and revealing them to the little ones (Matt. 11:25).  But what are these hidden secrets that so many mystics and religious seekers are speaking of?

 

Richard Rohr says,

 

 

“The big and hidden secret is this: an infinite God seeks and desires intimacy with the human soul. Once we experience such intimacy, only the intimate language of lovers describes the experience for us: mystery, tenderness, singularity, specialness, changing the rules “for me,” nakedness, risk, ecstasy, incessant longing, and of course also, necessary suffering. This is the mystical vocabulary of the saints.”

 

Yet, in our world today, we have big issues when it comes to this “vocabulary of the saints”. Many today fear intimacies, many go to counseling for issues relating to intimacy, many reject intimacy because it is too complicated, too personal, and takes too much work. 

 

Also today, there are countless self-help books on increasing or developing our intimacy, retreats couples can go on, even pills they can take, but intimacy doesn’t come from a book, a retreat, or a pill. 

 

Much like the intimacy between lovers, the intimacy with the Divine comes from within ourselves. 

 

Richard Rohr calls it an “inner knowing” and a connecting with the indwelling presence of the Divine.  As Quakers we often speak of this inner knowing in connection with our need for discernment. Friend Joycelin Dawes who writes on Quaker Spirituality says,

 

 

Discernment is living in accordance with our inner knowing, a stream of wisdom and will-to-good that arises as we are in touch with our deepest inner place or source.

 

Yet, often, I will be honest, it is hard to make that connection and put our self in a discerning posture. It is not easy getting in touch and staying in touch with that deep inner place where we are able to hear and discern our beloved-ness.

 

This is probably due to the fact that most of our understanding comes from how often other people fail us or lack an intimate love for us, and how infrequently we center down and connect with the Divine in this deep and meaningful way. 

 

Henri Nouwen testifies to these very feelings and I can identify. In his book, “Home Tonight” he says this…

 

 

Personally, as my struggle reveals, I don’t often “feel” like a beloved child of God. But I know that this is my most primal identity and I know that I must choose it above and beyond my hesitations.

 

            Strong emotions, self-rejections, and even self-hatred justifiably toss you about, but you are free to respond as you will.  You are not what others, or even you, think about yourself. You are not what you do. You are not what you have. You are a full member of the human family, having been known before you were conceived and molded in your mother’s womb.

 

 

In times when you feel bad about yourself, try to choose to remain true to the truth of who you really are. Look in the mirror each day and claim your true identity.  Act ahead of your feelings and trust that one day your feeling will match your convictions. Choose now and continue to choose this incredible truth. As a spiritual practice claim and reclaim your primal identity as the beloved daughter or son of a personal Creator.

 

According to Nouwen, our acceptance of our beloved-ness is part of our individual life journeys.  Through centering, meditation, and prayer, entering silence and expectant waiting, we Quakers come to understand that God loves us, as we are, in both our limitations and glory.

Just like I said last week about being special, unique, and original in God’s eyes, by the Divine’s voice calling us his beloved it silences our self-condemnation and our self-rejection; listening to this voice coming from God – as well as through other people who show us love and acceptance – is what enables us to feel at home in the world.

Since we believe each one of us has “that of God” within us, we must ask ourselves,

●       Are we getting in the way of someone feeling beloved by God?

●       And are we adding to the condemnation and rejection causing people to feel like outsiders and unloved?

Living out the truth of our beloved-ness is one of the greatest ways that the Present Christ is being incarnated in each of us.  When through our lives and relationships we help others sense they too are beloved they begin to see both that of God in us and in themselves.

As a way to let this truth sink in, Herni Nouwen developed a spiritual exercise called “The Beloved Prayer,” a three-part prayer that can be done individually or as part of guided meditation in a group.

“The Beloved Prayer” begins with quietly praying the phrase, “Jesus, you are the Beloved,” then moving onto “Jesus, I am the Beloved,” and then concluding with “Jesus, we are all the Beloved.”

Since we are blessed to have this technology to bring you this experience, you can pause or go back later if you want to focus on any specific part of this experience.

But let’s begin by quieting ourselves, centering down and entering this worshipful space this morning.

Begin to breathe slowly and deeply, relaxing your body and clearing your mind.

Expectantly wait for the Spirit to guide your meditation and prayer time.

Now, choose a phrase or mantra that seems to most resonate with you at this moment: 

●       Jesus, you are the Beloved;

●       Jesus, I am the Beloved; or 

●       Jesus, we are all the Beloved.

Begin by simply saying it to yourself, quietly aloud, or only in your head.

You may choose to close your eyes. Try to gently merge the rhythm of the phrase with the rhythm of your breathing.

Say it slowly, without hurry, until every other thought seems to fall away. As distractions inevitably show up, don’t worry about them. Simply acknowledge them and refocus the words of the mantra or prayer.

At this time, we will stay silent and continue to reflect on these three mantras as our waiting worship.

●       Jesus, you are the Beloved;

●       Jesus, I am the Beloved; or 

●       Jesus, we are all the Beloved.

[Add extra 3 minutes for this this slide with the three mantras]

You may find this meditation and prayer time comes to a natural conclusion. Hopefully you feel rested and replete, or you may find a bodily demand can no longer be ignored.

When the time seems right for you, come slowly back to your normal awareness and sit for a moment in silence.

If you feel led to do so, end with a brief prayer of thanksgiving and a request for continued awareness of God’s presence throughout your day.

You may find that one phrase claims your attention for days or weeks, or you may feel drawn to a different phrase each day.

Either way, trust the Spirit to affirm your beloved-ness and bring you back to that place of your core identity as God’s beloved.

I would like to close this time by reciting a poem of Rumi:

Oh Beloved, take me.

Liberate my soul.

Fill me with your love and release me from the two worlds.

If I set my heart on anything but you let fire burn me from inside.

 

Oh Beloved, take away what I want.

Take away what I do.

Take away what I need.

Take away everything that takes me from you.

 

Rumi

 

Amen.

 

 

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5-9-21 - Special, Original, Unique

Special, Unique, Original

Indianapolis First Friends

Pastor Bob Henry

May 9, 2021

 

Galatians 5:25-26 (The Message)  

25-26 Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us  make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.  

 

Good Morning Friends and Happy Mother’s Day to all our mothers and those who have been like-mothers and mother-figures to us.  We honor you today!

 

I am extremely blessed to have a wonderful mother who has always loved and cared for me.  She instilled in me at a very young age an evolving faith and a confidence in the person I would become. She did this by always reminding me that I was special, that I was uniquely wired, and that I was an original.  When I was younger, I took those moments for granted. But looking back, I realize they gave me a stability and self-assurance that laid a foundation for my life and faith – and I am eternally grateful.

 

What I have learned over time is that my mother’s care and guidance were inspired by her faith and how she understood God’s view of humanity.

 

You herd it again as Beth read for us the text for this morning, “Each of us is an original”…each is unique… each is special, but often we don’t take the time to understand or even explore this  (for some it is simply selfish and negates our spiritual development). 

 

But it was the religious scholar and mystic, Meister Eckhardt, who said it succinctly, 

 

“No one has known God who has not known himself.”

 

As Quakers a central aspect of our faith is that we believe that all people have an Inner Light, which refers to the Divine presence within each of us and directly impacts our personal experience of God. So just maybe the first place we need to explore to encounter the Divine is within our very own lives. 

 

Take a moment to ponder: When was the last time you thought about who you are?

 

Most of you know, I spent the past week taking a spiritual retreat at the Fall Creek Abbey here in Indy. An important aspect of most spiritual retreats is getting back in touch with one’s self, where we can hear our own heart’s desires once again. I spent a part of each day exploring that very question “Who am I?” from a variety of perspectives – as a husband, father, pastor, artist, Quaker, and the list went on…

 

The spiritual giants of the past called this experience getting to know your “true self.” 

 

Which immediately garners the question, are their parts of me that are not my true self?

 

For many of us, we spend a great deal of our lives trying to be somebody else or at least taking on labels that do not truly describe us.  Even as people of faith, we often have been told to be somebody else or at least feel the guilt of not being someone else.

 

Let me give you an example that most of us can relate to from James Martin’s book, “Becoming Who You Are.” He says,

 

“I would notice that another novice whom I admired was quiet and soft-spoken and diffident and introspective. I would think, “I need to be quiet and soft-spoken and diffident and introspective.” Consequently, the following days were spent in a largely useless attempt at being quiet, until someone would eventually say, “Are you feeling alright?” The very next week I would meet someone who had a particular fondness for praying very early in the morning, and who seemed very holy, and I would say to myself, “Well, I guess I have to start praying early in the morning, too.”  And then, up at five in the morning for my new regime, until that tired me out, too.”

 

Martin says, “My spiritual director kept reminding me that I didn’t need to be like anyone else except me. But it took a while for that to sink in.”

 

Does this sound familiar to you?

 

I too had some of these epiphanies during my retreat. Don’t we all, at times, get a little envious, even jealous of other people, especially when it comes to how it affects our faith or life journey?  I will be honest...

 

●        I have at times envied the monk’s life. (After this year - and this past week on retreat – it is extremely inviting.

●        I have at times envied those who have ongoing revelations from God.

●        I have at times been jealous of people who actually say that they hear the audible voice of the Divine.

●        And I have been envious of those that make the spiritual journey look so easy - because I find myself wrestling with doubt way too often.

 

It is this very thing that causes religious guilt, cookie-cutter followers, and even worse “Holier-than-thou” lives. Something, I believe the church is suffering greatly from in our day and age.

 

James Martin gets to the truth that what we are really doing is “minimizing our own gifts and graces and maximizing the other person’s… and vice versa….we often do the opposite with our problems and struggles: we maximize our own and minimize the other person’s.”

 

This becomes what one of my mentors called, “victimization.” We love to play the victim – “everyone else has it together, but poor me.” I am sure you know of people that are always “playing the victim” – honestly, they are not people we want to be around.

 

Folks, no one’s life is free of suffering or struggle.  We are all going through stuff (often stuff that we hold close and do not speak of or share) - and we need to remember this, because it helps put our own situations in perspective.  

 

We may not be able to see it in another person’s life - we don’t know what is terrorizing someone else’s soul.  Yet, you and I often want to be someone else, most likely to escape our own situation.

 

We say things like...

 

●        If only I had her/his good looks or youthfulness.

●        If only I had their money and wealth.

●        If only I had a spouse/partner/parent/friend like that person does.

●        If only I had her/his knowledge or faith.

●        If only I had the confidence and personality that person does.

●        If only I had _____________fill in the blank.

 

We can’t know all that we are asking for when wishing in this way. There is experience, pain and suffering that has gone into each of our lives.  

 

●        Are we willing to experience that as well?  

●        Or are we simply seeking the quick fix or the magic serum or pill? 

 

My mom did not tell me I was special, unique, and original and then continue to say that I would have no problems, no suffering, no desires to compare my life and abilities to someone else, or that I would at times play the victim. 

 

We have to admit it; we live in a world who often obsesses on comparing, trying to live up to, and even be something that we are not. 

 

James Martin says,

“The tendency to compare ultimately leads to despair, since our own real life can never compare with the perceived (but false) perfection of the other person’s life.” 

 

Now, I want to pause on this point and make a 180 degree turn.  

 

Much like my mother, our mother God has been telling us these truths since the beginning of time. We really have no reason to despair. Actually, just the opposite. Our Divine Mother has clearly indicated that we should be people of hope – a chosen and set-apart people with a special, unique, and original purpose.

 

Throughout the entire Bible, God makes this evident, but because we are prone to wander, prone to compare, prone to feel guilty, prone to want to be somebody else, we often miss it.

 

 Just listen to what our Mother God is saying about us.

 

Deuteronomy 7:6 “…you are a people holy to the LORD your God. The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession.” 

1 Peter 2:9 “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” 

Revelation 17:14 “He is Lord of lords and King of kings; and those who are with Him are called, chosen, and faithful” 

 

1 Corinthians 12:18-30 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, ... 

 

I Peter 4:10 “Serve one another with the particular gifts God has given each of you, as faithful dispensers of the magnificently varied grace of God.” 

 

Did you hear it...this is how we are described by our Divine Mother. 

 

We are…

●        Holy

●        Chosen

●        A treasured possession

●        A Royal priesthood

●        Ones who are called out of darkness to Light

●        Faithful

●        Needed

●        Indispensable

●        Gifted

●        Dispensers of God’s grace.

 

When we realize how God views us – that we are all the attributes I just read, it is evident that God sees us as special, unique and original.     

 

And this is where our text from Galatians 5:25-26 comes into perspective. Let me read it once again. 

 

25-26 Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original. 

 

And together, because of our originality, we have a greater privilege of seeing a clearer picture of God and sharing that diverse picture of God with others. 

 

But I must be honest, I have a feeling that what people, actually see, often doesn’t look anything like the Divine at all.  Instead, of our beautiful originality, what many see in the church today are what I call the four C’s:

 

1.     Comparing

2.     Complaining

3.     Controlling, and…

4.     A desire for being Comfortable.


All this leads me to another “C” word, calling.  

 

So what is our calling?

 

I agree with Dan Allender when he answers that question by saying,

“It is to make known something about God that is bound to my unique face, name, and story.  It is to reveal God through my character.”

 

Folks, we are “Each an Original” by the grace and love of God.  I want each of you to know what my mom instilled in me and our Mother God has been saying since the beginning of time:

 

●       you are special,

●       you are unique,

●       and you are an original

 

Now, as we move into waiting worship, I ask you to ponder the following three queries (you may need to find a place to retreat this week to journal and ponder them). 

 

  1. Who am I, really?

  2. What about God am I most uniquely suited to reveal to others?

  3. And how is that meaning in my life best lived out?

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5-2-21 - What Is the Church? Practicing Resurrection

What is the Church – Practicing Resurrection

Eugene Peterson book Practice Resurrection, A Conversation on Growing Up on Christ 

Ephesians 4:1-7

Beth Henricks

 

As many of you know, I am finally finishing my masters in divinity degree from Earlham School of Religion next month.  It’s been nine long years of working towards this and I am thankful that the journey is nearing its end but also reflecting on the importance of my seminary experience on my ministry here.

 

The final class a seminary student takes at ESR is called Comprehensive Seminar and it is kind of a culmination class of the seminary experience.  Each week we have looked at the question What is the Church and What is its mission today?   We examined the question from a personal, theological, Biblical, denominational, church historical, cultural, and ethical perspective.  I have spent a lot of time reflecting on the Church and just read Eugene Peterson’s book Practice Resurrection, A Conversation on Growing up in Christ, examining the Church through the lens of Paul’s letter to the church at Ephesus.  I also asked this question of many of you during one of our fellowship hours and heard from you that the Church is community, the incarnation of God’s flesh, a body of seekers, embodiment of the Word, a collective group to live out faith in the world, and a place to wrestle with questions and doubts.  For me, the Church (and I am speaking about the universal Church) has been the air that we breathe that allows our beings to have meaning.  Also at times, it has been the blockage in our air waves that has had us gasping.

 

Many churches might have a different answer to this question than what I heard from many of you.  They might say, The Church is a place for its members to accept Jesus as their personal savior, learn right beliefs and theology, study the Bible, share the good news of salvation and bring new converts into the Church.  Many churches feel their mission is to identify the human depravity, that Jesus died for our sins to appease a God that requires justice and a substitution for our sins, and that we must accept Jesus as our personal savior to save us from eternal damnation.   This was the Church that I grew up in and while bothered by some of this for a number of reasons, thought that this was Church. 

 

Part of my spiritual journey has been to study and live a different type of Church.  The Religious Society of Friends and this Meeting has opened my eyes to the possibility of a different Church.  It is one that is based in Scripture and the life and teachings of Jesus.  But it is radical in how we seek the call from Christ and how we listen for the voice of Christ within directly  – a voice and essence that has always been there and always will be. 

 

Paul describes this radical kind of church in Ephesians.  It is the only letter that Paul writes to a church where there isn’t a big problem that he is addressing.  He is outlining how the church and the universal Christ are intertwined , of the same substance,  and encourages a person to become mature in Christ, becoming alive to God and practicing resurrection in their lives and the life of the Community. 

 

Peterson’s book examines how the apostle Paul  encouraged the church to keep growing in their maturity in Christ and live out resurrection every day..  To become wholly integrated into the stature of Christ.  While there are some parts of Ephesians that have bothered me over time such as the admonition for wives to submit to their husbands (and there is much debate among Biblical scholars that Paul wrote this and that it was likely added later from another author), Peterson has opened my eyes to the benefits of examining the totality of this letter as Paul’s encouragement to a thriving Church and what the Church should be and how to live in this world.

 

In Peterson’s introduction to the book of Ephesians in his Message Bible, he says “What we know about God and what we do for God have a way of getting broken apart in our lives.  The moment the organic unity of belief and behavior is damaged in any way, we are incapable of living out the full humanity for which we were created.  Pau’s letter to the Ephesians joins together what has been torn apart in our sin-wrecked world.  Once our attention is called to it, we notice these fractures all over the place.  There is hardly a bone in our bodies that has escaped injury, hardly a relationship in city or job, school or church, family or country that isn’t out of joint or limping in pain.  There is much work to be done.  Paul shows how Jesus is eternally and tirelessly bringing everything and everyone together.  Now we know what is going on, that the energy of reconciliation is the dynamo at the heart of the universe, it is imperative that we join in vigorously and perseveringly.”

 

Friends, the Church is not about programs, initiatives, numbers, statistics, giving and many other quantifiable measures that our secular world demands and determines value.  Paul’s idea of church is none of this.  A lot of the church is invisible. The church isn’t what it does or doesn’t do – It is – the essence of being God’s temple.  It’s what happens to us not what we do. Growing in the maturity of Christ is quiet, reflective, obscure and not an outward process.  The Church is a plunge into grace.  Peterson writes, “Christians worship a crucified Savior – to all appearances in every and all cultures a rejected, humiliated, and failed Savior.”[1]   And yet this crucified savior is the basis of our church – Jesus is Church and Church is Jesus.  But not necessarily how we have domesticated Jesus and either denied his humanity or his divinity.  The Church is both human and divine just as Jesus was – just as all of us are.  And Paul in Ephesians really understands this idea and writes about it.  Peterson continues with “Resurrection defines Jesus life; resurrection defines our lives.  We were sin dead; we are resurrection alive.”[2]  It's all about grace which is defined as something freely given with nothing expected in return. 

 

Jesus was a part of the community of God’s chosen people the Hebrews.  He didn’t come from the outside but worked within the church that he was a part of.  And it was from within his community that he was silenced as he challenged the traditions, rule, requirement, forms of his faith community.  Jesus saw that his church was sinful, connected with the Roman govt, and the establishment, seeking prosperity and power.   

 

Maybe many people today see the church in the same way.  Church membership has declined dramatically in all denominations  including the Religious Society of Friends in the last 50 years.  Why is that?  Some suggest it’s the moral decline of society but I think the answer is much deeper than this pronouncement as all generations experience change   Many see the Church as Peterson describes as  full of “chaos; hostility, injury, brokenness, church fights, church sleaze, church grandstanding, religious wars.”[3]   There is a tension with individuals that want the church to be stable, orderly, taking care of business, maintaining traditions and something that we need to control.   But Is church a place to be measured in its effectiveness, by numbers, programs and financial giving?  While these things are important I don’t think they define the essence of church.

 

Will there still be a church 50 years from now – I think yes.  The Church is never going to be obsolete.    Paul says  “someone will forever be surprising a hunger in himself to be more serious.”  Quaker Rufus Jones has written many books about God always being present among us.  And Church is a place to experience this presence.  The church is the opposite of the concept of individualism that dominates our American culture.  The church is not about individualist achievement, rather it is a community that loves, shares burdens, supports, lives out the teachings of Jesus and helps each community member/attender to move into maturity in Christ.

 

During this time of the pandemic it’s become clear that the church is not the buildings that we have erected.  As writer Walker Percy said, we have become lost in the cosmos during this time.  This might be the best thing that has happened to the church.  All of our outward expressions of church were disrupted.  We had to turn inward.  And I think we began to understand that this is a community of saints.  That is how Paul defines the church within all of its messiness and conflicts and failings.  This is a group of saints and this is God’s expression of the embodiment of the Word in all its flaws.  It is a community all about resurrection.  And wisdom is the practice of that resurrection.

 

I close with these two lines from the Mary Oliver poem  Moonlight- “Take care you don’t know anything in this world too quickly or easily.  Everything is also a mystery and has its own secret aura in the moonlight, its private song.”

 

We now enter into a time of waiting worship where we settle into our souls and listen for the voice of God.  Here are some queries to consider.

 

 How am I the embodiment of the Church?

How do I need to grow in maturity of Christ?

How do I need to practice resurrection in my life?        

 

 


[1] Eugene Peterson’s, Practice Resurrection, 93

[2] Eugene Peterson’s, Practice Resurrection ,89

[3] Eugene Peterson’s, Practice Resurrection, 123

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4-25-21 - Awakening to Co-Creation

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

April 25, 2021

 

 

2 Corinthians 3:18 (The Message)

16-18 Whenever, though, they turn to face God as Moses did, God removes the veil and there they are—face-to-face! They suddenly recognize that God is a living, personal presence, not a piece of chiseled stone. And when God is personally present, a living Spirit, that old, constricting legislation is recognized as obsolete. We’re free of it! All of us! Nothing between us and God, our faces shining with the brightness of his face. And so, we are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him.

 

Good morning Friends, it is good to be with you virtually, once again.

 

I was asked a while back to speak this weekend at Valley Mills Quaker Meeting here in Indy. Our former Superintendent Wanda Coffin Baker invited me to share how art has influenced my Spiritual Journey.  I found it a bit ironic, since this coming week I will be taking a spiritual retreat, and as part of that spiritual retreat I am including an intuitive painting class each evening.  So, I thought I would also share with you what I am sharing with Valley Mills this morning.  Some of you at First Friends have heard parts of this story when I presented on a similar topic for our Shalom Zone event a couple years ago. 


 

Before I start, I want you to know that I understand there is an art to crafting a sermon and even ministry itself, as well as many other expressions that can be considered artistic, but when I speak of art in this message, I am actually speaking of my own expression through various types of media (such as drawing and painting).

 

From my earliest of days, art has been a way I have expressed myself, as well as process some of my most difficult struggles.  If you would have met me in grade school or even most of high school you might have thought I was bound for art school or at least a career that would utilize my artistic abilities like two of my sons. I won numerous awards and took every art class I was allowed.

 


 

Yet, that would not be the path I would follow. 

 

It would be in my junior year of high school that I would attend with my youth group a servant event at our denominational camp.  Looking back, I sense servant events were a way to draw young people into ministry. 

 

Servant Events were designed to put youth in vulnerable situations, show them first-hand the deep needs of the world, mix in a little guilt and an over-focus of one’s personal giftedness, and WHAMO! – it is hard not to hear the Call of God on your life.

 

Before this Servant Event experience, my high school life was consumed by the practice of art. I would get up early and walk to my high school to spend an hour or so before school in the art room.  I spent ever study hall in the art room, along with two or three art classes during the day – and I would even stay after school until my art teacher literally left the building.  It helped that I lived a block-or-so from my high school campus. 

 

But the Call of God that I heard at that servant event sent me on a new trajectory. Over the next several years, I would slowly put my expression of art away, compartmentalize it, even begin to consider it a “lesser gifting.” 

 

Many people told me that ministry was a much nobler profession, that I would not make any money in art (like ministry is much different), that working for myself would be very hard, and that men have to take care of their families.  All things I have come to believe as misinformation and some even outright lies.

 

So, I began to repress my artistic gifting for this more-noble profession. While in college to become a Director of Christian Education, I found some ways to engage my artistic ability.  I designed numerous t-shirts, program covers, and anything that my fellow students requested. 

 

If you know me, or have ever sat by me in a meeting, you will know that I am a passionate doodler.  During one of my college classes, the professor literally stopped our class and very angerly began to ask me questions about what he was teaching.  He said, “I don’t think you are taking my class seriously – you are distracting the other students with your doodles.” To his surprise, I proceeded to answer every one of his questions – because doodling is a tool that helps me stay focused. 

 

After graduating and entering full-time professional ministry, my art and my desire for art had diminished, to almost nothing.  The Call of God and the call to ministry became my soul passion.

 

On occasion, you could find me doodling during church meetings, but rarely would I engage much else.  Actually, for many years my wife did not even know that I could paint or that I enjoyed this artistic expression. 

 

For almost 13 years, my art supplies dried up or were thrown out as we moved from ministry to ministry. Because art ended up not being a career for me and because ministry was so demanding, I looked for a way to stay focused on what I had been told was the greater cause – “saving souls.” 

 

Well, after 13 years and numerous ministry positions, even receiving a Master’s Degree with honors in Spiritual Formation, I found myself in a Family Christian Book Store in Michigan opening a copy of a new book that would begin reengaging my artistic mind.  The book was by a new pastor in Grand Rapids, Michigan of all places, named Rob Bell.  The reason the book grabbed my attention was both in its unique layout and graphic design as well as its title, “Velvet Elvis.”

 


 

I remember standing in the store and reading the entire introduction of the book as Rob explained how a velvet painting of Elvis had inspired him to see theology, ministry, and even life differently.  Now, I have to be honest, his words rattled me so much that I read through the book a number of times, even at one point throwing it across the room because deep inside I had not been honest about who I was or what I all I believed. 

 

Looking back, I had simply become a product of a system that solely wanted conformity - something which I have realized has hurt many people, ministries, and churches alike. Too often the church is out to make what I call “cookie-cutter Christians.”  I do not believe that was how the Divine intended it to be. I’ve come to understand God as a god of diversity and that we have been uniquely wired with talents and gifts that benefit one another in this journey we call life. 

 

For two years I wrested with Rob Bell’s book.  I talked with fellow ministers about it and even led small groups around it at the college in which I was working at the time.  But soon Rob Bell’s non-conformity and unique gifting would lead him to be labeled a heretic by other church leaders, including people close to me. 

 


Since my confidence was growing and I was beginning to realize that I was missing a part of myself - instead of grabbing my torch and joining the others in calling Rob a heretic, my wife, Sue and I decided to make a pilgrimage to hear Rob preach on a Sunday morning at his church, Mars Hill in Grand Rapids, MI. 

 

On arrival at Mars Hill, we were greeted by Rob in the foyer, but during worship we were disappointed as Rob introduced two other people from a local college who were going to preach for him that day.

 

To this day, I have no recollection of the names of those tag-team preachers, but I will never forget the topic of their message.  They were talking about “Creativity” and their inspiration was a book by Dorothy Sayers titled, “The Mind of the Maker.”

 


 

Even though Dorothy Sayers’ words are excellent and I enjoyed reading the book after buying it when I returned home, the tag-team preachers focused on Madame Le Engle’s words from the lengthy introduction to the book. 

 

In the introduction, Madame Le Engle points out one of Sayers’ main points that

 


 

“..the characteristic common to God and man is…the desire and ability to make things.”

 

I remember as they expanded this idea, feeling a hole deep inside myself crying out.  I realized during that sermon, that I had not made or created anything for quite some time that was truly an expression of myself.

 

Well, as they continued preaching they pointed out how Madame Le Engle quoted the 20th century, Russian and Christian philosopher, Nicholas Berd-ya-ev that would really open my eyes.

 

Berd-ya-ev wrote:

 

 

“God created man in his own image and likeness, i.e. made him a creator too, calling him to free spontaneous activity and not to formal obedience to His power. Free creativeness is the creature’s answer to the great call of its creator. Man’s creative work is the fulfillment of the Creator’s secret will.”

 

Never once had I thought of myself as a co-creator with God or that my creative freedom was an important aspect (or the fulfillment) of my spiritual life.  All I knew at this moment was that I was neglecting and missing an important aspect of my life and I needed to do something about it.

 

Prior to traveling to Grand Rapids for this life-altering sermon, I had been asked to create a spiritual retreat for the student services department at the college where I worked.  One aspect of that experience was still missing. As we drove home from Grand Rapids, I sensed an opening (much like those described by George Fox or other mystics of the faith). I had a clear picture (almost like a vision) in my mind of a set of paintings I felt called and led to paint. 

 

We stopped at a Michael’s on our way home and I picked up 5 canvases and some new paints.  After arriving home, I spread them out on our kitchen table and began to sketch out and then paint all five paintings from the images in my mind. 

 

You must understand, this was the first time in almost 13 years that I had painted anything.  I painted throughout the night and did not stop until I finished all 5 paintings at about three in the morning.

 

Art reentered my life in a new way that night and early morning.  Since then, I have embraced it as part of my preaching, part of my therapy, part of who I am – a co-creator with the Divine. 

 

This morning, I want you to engage the five paintings I painted that night as a part of our waiting worship.  I don’t want to give you much background or my interpretation, rather I want you to experience them for yourself. My hope is that you will see inside your own soul and tap the creative spirit lying dormant or maybe neglected in you. Please know that I share these with you as my expression of art – for you it may be poetry, gardening, singing, or a plethora of other things.  I can only share from my experience and what God opened up to me that day. 


I hope you will allow these painting to be a type of spiritual exercise where your interpretation and response is connecting with the Divine and possibly God speaking to your condition.

 

I have had so many rich conversations with people who have experienced these paintings and after the service today, I would love to hear how they spoke to you.

 

So instead of queries for waiting worship, I have below the 5 paintings for you to reflect upon and expectantly wait for what God may be saying to you.


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4-18-21 - Seeds, Kedosh, and Putting People First

Indianapolis First Friends Meeting 

Pastor Bob Henry 

April 18, 2021

 

Matthew 13:31-32 (NRSV)

 

31 He put before them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed that someone took and sowed in his field; 32 it is the smallest of all the seeds, but when it has grown it is the greatest of shrubs and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.”

 

Good morning, Friends.  It is again good to be with you in the comfort of your own homes. I pray this finds you safe and well. 

 

It is clear throughout Scripture that Jesus was “close to the earth” as we say. On numerous occasions, he was able to take basic farming or gardening references and help explain the deeper mysteries of our faith. One of the reasons we need to have a month focused on the Earth and especially its care, is so we too are able to glean wisdom as Jesus did from our Earth for our spiritual and daily lives. This morning, I want to help unpack how Jesus utilized the earth and our relationship to it, to show us a clearer picture of what he labels, “The Kingdom of God.”

 

Jesus was asked on numerous occasions to explain the Kingdom of God. And his answers came in the form of short stories - which religious folk have often labeled parables.  Sometimes the stories were rather cryptic and took explanation in Jesus’ day (and even more in ours, since most of us don’t live in a rural agrarian society). If Jesus had lived in our day and age the parables may have been written utilizing technology or internet metaphors.

 

So, Jesus is posed the question, “What is the Kingdom of God” and he answers with several different stories about a sower, weeds, and then to our text for today where he compares the Kingdom of God to a mustard seed.

 

 

The first couple of parables may have passed the ears of the disciples and followers of Jesus, but not the Mustard Seed. Actually, they probably would have laughed, chuckled, or even whispered to a friend, “Did Jesus just say Mustard seed?” 

 

For Jesus to compare the Kingdom of God to a mighty cedar [which he had done] was fine, but to compare it to what in Jesus’ day was a noxious, invasive, common weed, quickly got their attention.

 

For us today, it would be like Jesus saying the Kingdom of God is like the climbing, coiling, and trailing perennial Kudzu vines that are ruining landscapes across America.

 

 

Jesus’ audience would have been either in shock, think that he was being irreverent, or that he had somehow misspoke.   

 

I don’t know about you, but I grew up with this parable in Sunday School, someone once even gave me a necklace with a little mustard seed in it to wear to remind me that something very small could grow into something big - which often they implied meant the church.  It is true that mustard seeds are very tiny and grow rapidly into a bush - some as tall as 10-12 feet high.  

 

 

 

But I need to be honest at this point...I think there is a much deeper meaning to this parable than church growth...and I believe it has a lot to do with quality not quantity.     

 

First, allow me to give us some information that may help us understand the radicalness of Jesus’ comparison of the Kingdom to the mustard seed. Some of these thoughts come from Friend Daniel Coleman’s commentary on this parable: 

 

You may not have realized this, but right off the bat Jesus is talking about breaking the purity codes of his day. In Jesus’ culture, people were not allowed to plant a mustard seed in one’s garden, as the gardener in the parable does. It was Levitical Law, one of many prohibitions about mixing things, such as,

 

“Don’t wear clothing made from two kinds of fabric; don’t plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together; and yes even, don’t plant different kinds of seeds together.”

 

Yet Jesus says this gardener sowed it directly into his field. 

 

The ancient Jewish understanding of holiness, what they called kedosh, had to do with separating. It is understandable that this view developed when you consider that throughout ancient history Israel was a tiny nation sandwiched between great empires who wanted to swallow up and assimilate them.  To survive they needed their own separate identity. 

 

You are probably familiar with what that kind of holiness resulted in... “purity codes.” Coleman described it this way, 

 

If someone was deemed ritually impure (which PLEASE NOTE often had nothing to do with sin or immorality), such as a woman during her monthly cycle or a person who had touched a corpse or someone with a skin disease, they had to be excluded from the community and from worshiping God until they were purified.” 

 

By the time of Jesus, there were so many purity codes regulated by Pharisees that it was hard not to break the rules every moment of the day. All you had to do was eat the wrong thing or associate with the wrong person.

 

Or like most of us gathered virtually today, we are breaking purity codes by dressing in mixed fabrics - I am sure there is someone sitting in their home wearing a cotton-polyester blend as I speak. 

 

But let’s stick with gardening. The gardener also had to keep her/his garden kedosh - holy and separated.  This meant each type of plant had to be kept separate from the others in neat, tidy rows. 

 

So, I think you might be getting the picture of why Jesus using the Mustard seed would be rather shocking.  If you planted a mustard seed in your well-kept garden – gardening madness would ensue.  Quickly the Mustard seed would take over the garden. Since the Mustard seed had lots of seeds, fast growing shoots would be coming up all the time all over your plot of ground - a gardener’s nightmare. The holy garden would quickly become less than holy - more like a holy mess.  

 

And did you notice what Jesus said at the end of the parable. Birds would be attracted to the seeds and come and make nests.  No…..Not birds!  

 

 

That is the last thing a gardener wants in their garden. This is why we have scarecrows and pinwheels and moving distractions to get rid of the birds.  

 

Jesus, what in the world are you talking about?!   

 

The followers of Jesus must have been absolutely confused or otherwise laughing at Jesus’ comparison as if it were a joke or something.  Yet in reality Jesus wasn’t making a joke, instead he was painting us a picture of what God’s kingdom looked like and what following God’s example would accomplish.  

 

At first glance it doesn’t make sense, but Daniel Coleman helped give me some insights to why this is such a radical and important parable for us. Listen to what he says. 

 

“When you look at what Jesus did throughout the Gospels (and remember, Jesus is the revelation of God), he kept breaking down barriers and disregarding taboos. He disregarded the taboos concerning fellowship with sinners. He surrounded Himself with low-lives and outcasts and those who, socially, were on the margins. 

 

  • Jesus disregarded the taboos concerning fellowship with despised tax-collectors.

  • Jesus disregarded the taboos concerning Samaritans and even made a Samaritan the hero of His parable about loving one’s neighbor—another absurdity, which would have been highly offensive to many.

  • Jesus disregarded the taboos concerning the place of women in society and the segregation/marginalization of women… [and the list could go on, because]

  • Jesus disregarded many other cultural/religious taboos.”

 

So much so, Jesus, himself, would have been considered unclean most of the time by the Pharisee’s standards. 

 

So here comes the kicker….What if Jesus saw kedosh, or what we have termed holiness, from a different perspective? [consider that for a moment]

  

Daniel Coleman turned to a quote from If Grace Is True, a book that several years ago opened my eyes to new ways of seeing. In the book, fellow Quakers Philip Gulley and James Mulholland talk about holiness in this way. I remember underlining this definition of holiness and reading it over and over to let it sink in.  

 

Holiness is God’s ability to confront evil without being defiled. God’s holiness does not require him to keep evil at arm’s length. God’s holiness enables Him to take the wicked in His arms and transform them. God is never in danger of being defiled. No evil can alter His love, for His gracious character is beyond corruption. This is what it means to say God is holy—God’s love is incorruptible. Holiness and love are not competing commitments. God is love. His love endures forever. This enduring love is what makes God holy. No manner of evil done to us or by us can separate us from this love. God transforms His morally imperfect children through the power of His perfect love. It is our experience of this love that inspires us to such perfection. Jesus said, ‘Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect’ (Matt. 5:48). If this verse was a command for moral perfection, our cause is hopeless. Fortunately, this admonition follows a command to ‘Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you’ (Matt. 5:44). Perfection is demonstrated not by moral purity, but by extravagant love. We are like God not when we are pure, but when we are loving and gracious.

 

Too often good-meaning religious people get obsessed by rules, laws, purity codes, and often take it to the limits by categorizing, labeling, and finally excluding people. Instead of being like the Pharisees of his day, Jesus put people first.

 

Instead of growing the church bigger as many have taught, the parable of the mustard seed is, at its heart, a teaching about radical inclusion. 

 

I love how Daniel Coleman said it:  

 

 

“Jesus is saying, in effect, ‘If you allow the Kingdom of God into your midst, it is going to make a mess of your neat, tidy garden. It is going to break down your barriers of separation. It is going to attract and shelter the ones that everyone else tries to keep out. It is not going to look majestic and lofty and impressive, but rather, common and unremarkable and initially very small. But…, it will spread like crazy.”

 

So, First Friends what do we do with this parable of Jesus? 

 

As Quakers we are known as common, unremarkable and smaller than other churches out there - but I believe as we continue to break down those walls of separations and open our doors to the full Kingdom of God, great things are going to happen. Sure, outsiders will consider us absurd, taboo, even risky - but isn’t that part of our Quaker history?  

 

All I know is that God loves to take his people out of their comfort zones.  God likes to plant a mustard seed in our garden and make things a little messy, because then we have the wonderful opportunity of learning to include and love as God does. 

 

 

Now, as we enter waiting worship, I ask that you join me in considering the following queries in a time of silent reflection.

 

1.      What am I learning from the creation around me about my faith journey? When will I spend some time in creation this week to glean from its wisdom? 

 

2.      As Quakers, what do our “purity codes” look like today? Who might we unaware be categorizing, excluding or labeling in our daily life?

 

3.      Where do we see God planting a “mustard seed” in the life of First Friends?

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4-11-21 - Living Among Holy Creatures in a Holy World

Indianapolis First Friends

Pastor Bob Henry

April 6, 2021

 

Job 12:7-10 (NRSV)

 

7 “But ask the animals, and they will teach you;
    the birds of the air, and they will tell you;
8 ask the plants of the earth, and they will teach you;
    and the fish of the sea will declare to you.
9 Who among all these does not know
    that the hand of the Lord has done this?
10 In his hand is the life of every living thing
    and the breath of every human being.

 

 

This week, we conclude our look at the Quaker Testimonies or S.P.I.C.E.S. with our Testimony of Stewardship and its relation to “Bearing One Another’s Burdens.”

 

 

Ironically, April is what is now considered Earth Month, where we are to focus on the Stewardship and Sustainability of the Earth. For most people, stewardship is an old-time church word that has traditionally been associated with the finances of the church, but it actually comes from the Old English, where Stig meant hall and weard meant keeper - keeper of the hall or what we would translate keeper of the earth.

 

This morning, I would like to do something a bit different to emphasize this important testimony.  I want us to begin with what we call a “spiritual exercise” developed around a set of queries to focus our attention.  I have barrowed these thoughts from Ignatian Spirituality. 

 

 

If you are not familiar with Ignatius of Antioch (who lived 35-107AD) – he was considered one of the Early Church Fathers, a disciple of the Apostle John, one of the first Bishops of the Church, and he ended up a martyr for the faith.

 

Often when Quakers have sought to return to the “faith of the apostles” (as our history notes) they find great commonality and connection with Ignatius and his Spiritual Exercises. This is because his work is foundational in the mystical tradition – a tradition that Quakers are also categorized within.

 

If you have ever read any of the work of Quaker Richard Foster or even the Renovaré curriculum it is heavily influenced by Ignatius’ work. It was Richard Foster who influenced by Ignatius wrote, 

 

 

“There are three great books that guide our lives, 1) the book of scripture, 2) the book of experience, and 3) the book of nature.” 

 

As well, Ignatius was one of the first theologians to connect our spiritual exercises with ecology and creation. So, it seems natural or fitting to utilize his work this morning as we begin Earth Month.  

 

To begin we will start as most Ignatian exercises do, by taking a deep breath.  (Notice how your whole body relaxes as you breathe in and exhale.) 

 

Take another deep breath.  (This time notice that the air coming into your lungs through your nose is free and plentiful.  

 

Finally, take another deep breath.  The atoms of air that you breath in and out are a shared gift – shared both with other humans and with the creatures and plants of the Earth.

 

This air constitutes a radical physical connectedness with all other living beings. 

 

Because of our intricate interconnectedness with each other in and through the natural world, what has been called environmentalism – concern for that which is around us becomes ecological awareness

 

Trileigh Tucker speaking on this says,

 

“The word ‘ecology’ comes from two Greek roots: oikos meaning ‘house’ and logos, meaning ‘reason’ or ‘discourse’.  When we shift from speaking of the environment (that which is around us but does not include us) to speaking of ecology, then, we are thinking in a new way: not about a distant object, but rather about the network of relationships within which we live: our own house, our home.

 

Or as we say this morning – EARTH.  

 

To help you connect with your experience of this place – earth, I want to help you make that connection this morning through a simple Ignatian exercise.  

 

Take a moment to allow your mind to travel to the first natural place (or place in nature) to which you felt connected as a child, or another natural place to which you’ve felt a strong connection.  (You may need to close your eyes to really travel back to this place.)

 

Imagine you’re in that place again this morning. 

 

 

What do you notice with your senses?

What does it look like?

What does it smell like?

What does it feel like?

What does it sound like?

Maybe what do you taste there?

 

Is there something particular in that place – a tree or a stream or an animal – to which you have a special attachment? 

 

How do you feel as you return there?

What feelings does it invoke?

What good memories are associated with this place?

 

The reason I wanted you to think about these things is because much of our connectedness in this world is understood and driven by landscapes or what I will call, place.  Ignatius believed that our psychology and spirituality are intimately connected with place.  Also, we have a physical connection to our geography as well as the psychological and spiritual. 

 

Yet, many people today feel misplaced – and no longer comfortable in their changing surroundings.  Some would go as far as saying they lack a sense of place because they no longer know their neighbors.  Ask yourself?

 

·        Do you know the neighbors that live on either side of you?

·        How far down the street do you have to go before you do not know them at all? 

·        Who, if you needed help, would be the neighbor you would call on? 

·        If someone in your neighborhood needed help, would they call on you?

 

We in our world today, do what the authors of “The New Parish” call “Living above Place” which is “the tendency to develop structures that keep cause-and-effect relationships far apart in space and time where we cannot have firsthand experience of them.”  

 

What happens when a society, like ours, lives above place for long enough is that we begin to live a cocooned way of life, unaware of others and how we affect each other. This is even more evident and true during this long pandemic.

 

You can see this happening first hand with the way we create online communities and only associate with people that support our own views.  It is what is dividing us politically as a country and creating fear-based organizations, biased media, and country club religions. 

 

And I believe “Living Above Place” is not only talking about our human neighbors but also those that we may not even consider neighbors - for instance our neighbors of water, energy, food. 

 

Again, ask yourselves? 

 

Do you know where your water, energy, food comes from?  What kind of relationship and first-hand experience do you have with them?

 

We must admit that we have intimate, survival-based relationships with these basic essential needs, but many people cannot identify from where they come, because again we have cocooned ourselves from knowing. 

 

What if we did not know where our life partners, spouses, or closest friends came from? (Honestly, they probably wouldn’t have a prominent place in our lives.)

 

To know that my wife comes from North of Detroit, MI, that she grew up on a farm, that her family raised cattle, is rather important to my understanding of her, today – and knowing where our water, energy, food come from is vitally important as well. 

 

Ignatius says that becoming aware of this background knowledge is essential to us “living in the flesh.” We must admit that we are creatures of the flesh – that we are dwellers in a specific place, and that we express that of God’s creation in our own being. 

 

 

Knowing our place is key to understanding what God is doing among us and through us in our neighborhood and world.

 

My friends, Chris Smith and John Pattison, in their book, “Slow Church” expound on this by saying,

 

 

“Cultivation of our communities involves attentiveness not only to the rhythms of our specific places but also to the day-to-day sorts of choices we make and the sort of rhythmic order we impose on those places. As our roots grow deeper in a place, we can’t help but want to see that place thrive. Seeking the flourishing of our places not only involves caring for them – keeping them clean, planting gardens, living lightly on the land – but also caring for the people who live here with us, of course.”

 

To cultivate our communities, we will first need to examine our places and those we engage with in that space. This helps us be able to see the burdens that both we and others carry.  Ignatius encouraged this as part of his spiritual exercises, because he knew that the natural world and our human co-habitants affect us psychologically, physically, and spiritually. 

 

In Exercise 60 and 160 of his Spiritual Exercises, Ignatius asks,

 

“Going through all creatures, how have they left me in life and preserved me in it…the heavens, sun, moon, stars and elements, fruits, birds, fishes and animals.”

 

“…the various persons: and first those on the surface of the earth, in such variety, in dress as in actions: some white and others black: some in peace and others in war: some weeping and others laughing, some well, others ill, some being born and others dying, etc...”

 

 

See, when we start to see the way all of creation takes care of, preserves, and sustains us, then we must ask ourselves how we in-turn are taking care of all of creation – animals, plants, our neighbors of all walks of life, beliefs, cultures, etc...

 

Because, to cut out any of these would be detrimental to our own growth. This is a connection to creation relationship that must be acknowledged and continually worked through.

 

This week, I again return to Wendell Berry who wrote about this very thing in his essay, Christianity and the Survival of Creation which can be found in his book, The Art of the Commonplace. Berry says this,

 

 

“We will discover that for these reasons our destruction of nature is not just bad stewardship, or stupid economics, or a betrayal of family responsibility; it is the most horrid blasphemy. It is flinging God’s gifts into His face, as if they were of no worth beyond that assigned to them by our destruction of them…We have no entitlement from the Bible to exterminate or permanently destroy or hold in contempt anything on the earth or in the heavens above it or in the waters beneath it. We have the right to use the gifts of nature but not to ruin or waste them…The Bible leaves no doubt at all about the sanctity of the act of world making, or the world that was made, or of creaturely or bodily life in this world.

 

We are holy creatures living among other holy creatures in a world that is holy.”  

 

This reminds me of a poem by Quaker Laurent A. Parks Daloz, a Peace Corps Volunteer, educator and environmental activist.  He writes,

 

 

Stop for moment beside a young cedar to listen

And breathe in the life swarming around you.

A soft breeze brushes your cheek;

You can feel the silence.

For a thrumming instant you are one with it –

At such moments, we don’t simply believe,

We know that we are woven into the mat of interdependent life.

This is not sacred belief;

It is sacred knowledge.

We know in our bones that we are an intimate part of all life,

Not simply what surrounds us in the present,

But of all life in all time.

The oxygen we breathe,

The nourishment from the plants beside us,

The elements beneath our feet –

All come to us from the most distant past

And will endure in some form into the unimaginable future.

We are ineluctably a part of all space and time.

 

So, the first thing, we are called to do this Earth Month is to become aware of our place and the sacredness of it. We need to take time to allow ourselves to get out of our cocoons and to descend from “living above place” to living in the present moment with our neighbors in which we have been given as gift – this place we call the earth.  And when we begin to do that, we will both see the burdens of this world and our neighbors and know how we can begin to make this world a better place.    

 

To help us reflect on this, I ask you to ponder with me the following queries from one of my favorite books, Practicing Peace, by Friend Catherine Whitmire.  

 

·        What have I learned from listening to God in the earth, rocks, trees, water, and animals?  How has this learning affected or changed my life?

 

·        In what ways does my daily life exemplify, reflect, or belie my respect for the oneness of Creation and my care for the environment?

 

·        Am I willing to change the way I live and make sacrifices in my lifestyle in order to preserve the earth, air, and water for future generations? What changes am I willing to make now?

 

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4-4-21 - Another World Is Possible

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Bob Henry

April 4, 2021

 

Scriptures: Mark 16 (The Message)

16 1-3 When the Sabbath was over, Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and Salome bought spices so they could embalm him. Very early on Sunday morning, as the sun rose, they went to the tomb. They worried out loud to each other, “Who will roll back the stone from the tomb for us?”

4-5 Then they looked up, saw that it had been rolled back—it was a huge stone—and walked right in. They saw a young man sitting on the right side, dressed all in white. They were completely taken aback, astonished.

6-7 He said, “Don’t be afraid. I know you’re looking for Jesus the Nazarene, the One they nailed on the cross. He’s been raised up; he’s here no longer. You can see for yourselves that the place is empty. Now—on your way. Tell his disciples and Peter that he is going on ahead of you to Galilee. You’ll see him there, exactly as he said.”

They got out as fast as they could, beside themselves, their heads swimming. Stunned, they said nothing to anyone.

 

Happy Easter Friends!  It is so good to be with you on this special day. 

Each year in preparation for the Easter holiday, I find myself contemplating the mystery and broad understanding of Easter among Friends. Since traditionally Quakers consider every day a “holy day,” it is always a different experience among Friends than it would be among other traditions within the Christian faith. 

Yet, when we strip Easter down to its rudimentary elements – it is hard not to find resurrection at its core. 

This year especially, as we are coming out of a deadly pandemic, and even today, meeting together for worship in-person, as well as, virtually, resurrection has a new meaning once again.

I truly believe there is a resurrection taking place in our world, our country, our families, and even our personal lives.  The stone is slowly being removed from the tomb that has been this pandemic and there is new life and new hope emerging. I am sure you can sense it, and some are possibly even experiencing it through a simple hug from a loved one, again. 

Today, as we explore this core aspect of Easter, I want to again relate it to our theme for the past 6 weeks of “bearing one another’s burdens.” To do this I will highlight how the resurrection speaks to our Testimony of Equality – that all people were created equal in the eyes of God and that there is that of God within all people.

To understand the resurrection in this light we need to explore what theologians call “Universal Resurrection” and its impact on us still today.  In it, one will find that dying and rising, or resurrection, is bound up with one another.

Mystic blogger, Mark Longhurst, points out that…

“This rising is expansive in scope: Jesus Christ rises, but also brings everyone and everything into God’s resurrection movement.”

I believe his point is that there is a definite focus on equality in the resurrection, if we will take the time to see it.

Longhurst points out the slight differences in how we see the resurrection. He says, 

“Jesus Christ has risen, except many in the Christian religion have turned this transformational tale into an individual heroic feat. Jesus Christ is risen: he did it, or God did it on his behalf, and we marvel at how amazing it all is. We turn Jesus into a box office sensation: Jesus, the Superhero, back from the dead, who disappeared briefly to another galaxy and has returned to save us. Or, alternatively, we ignore the resurrection completely, awkwardly downplaying its importance for our faith.

Resurrection, however, is not only about Jesus rising. Jesus Christ sweeps everyone and everything up within God’s resurrecting movement. To talk about resurrection, and better yet, to experience it, is somehow to bear the weighty paradox of death and life evolving together at the center of the universe.”

Our scripture text that Beth read for us this morning focused on the women - Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, Salome, and the Luke account even adds Joanna – these were the women who came to the tomb on that first easter morning. 

That the gospels even mention the women being the first to experience this occurrence speaks to a clear focus on gender equality, especially for Jesus’ day. 

Easter is also about the women rising, Peter and the other disciples rising, the early church rising, the generations that have gone before us rising, and even us rising.  The resurrection is not just about one man rising, it is about the universe itself rising.

Wendell Berry in one of my favorite poems, “The Mad Farmer Liberation Front” described Resurrection as

“the humus building under trees, the sequoias planted, the choice of love over profit, the sheer bliss of resting in a lover’s arms in a field, the practice of believing and enacting that another world is possible. 

That was Jesus’ eternal message for ALL of us – that another world is possible

On a side note, I find it interesting that the word resurrection does not appear at all in the Old Testament, and in the New Testament it is the Greek word anastasis which translated means “to stand up” or “to rise up.” 

It is the same word that is often used when saying someone will take a stand or rise up to speak.  That is exactly what Jesus was doing - he was rising up, standing up to show that another world is possible.  

And that is what the women coming to the tomb would experience first-hand. They would be empowered by the men appearing in white to go spread the word of this resurrection. Women were often considered possessions in Jesus’ day and were not allowed to speak – especially, to share news of this magnitude to men. What these women were hearing was that a new world was possible for women, starting that very day! 

Mary would even hear this directly from Jesus’ lips in the garden beside the tomb. He would encourage her not to cling to him but instead fulfill her calling to be the bearer of good news that resurrection is for ALL!  I find it beautiful that the news of resurrection begins with barriers for women being broken.

This is what Peter and the other disciples, who not believing the women, would run across town to experience for themselves. A slow change would begin that in that moment would call them to be shepherds – caretakers of the flocks – not of sheep but of people.  The disciples, too, were rising to their calling.

And this is true for us as well, resurrection cannot just be for a man 2000+ years ago.  It has to be relevant still today and speak to our condition.  Just as we watch the spring flowers resurrect from dead bulbs in our gardens each year, we too must find the life and hope resurrecting from the dead of our lives proving to us that another world is possible. Proving once again that we are being called to a greater purpose of loving this great God and our neighbor as ourselves.

When I was a campus pastor, I had the opportunity to officiate some of my student’s weddings. On one occasion, the couple asked if I would paint them a picture of the resurrection. The husband wanted a modern take on a classic Eastern Orthodox painting of the Resurrection. 

If you are not familiar, in the Eastern Orthodox tradition, Jesus is almost always shown rising up from the tomb holding the hands of Adam and Eve who are rising along with him.  Sometimes others biblical characters are also included in these icons, but almost never is the resurrection seen as a solo act.

What this illustrates and helps us understand is that the resurrection is not only about one person’s accomplishment, but about the rising up, the amazing feats that will take place in and through all humanity from this day forward.

Resurrection was never intended for one body, but for ALL bodies – or we could say ALL humanity!

Longhurst puts it so well,

“And if resurrection is for all bodies, then surely it is for those bodies who are most suffering. Whatever Jesus’s rising means, it must mean that justice rises, finally, for poor bodies, black and brown bodies, queer bodies, incarcerated bodies, homeless bodies, and children’s bodies separated from mom’s and dad’s bodies at the border.”

I don’t know about you, but this should make sense to us Quakers, because in the early centuries Friends took what was considered to be a progressive approach to women, to children, to prisoners, to those with psychiatric illnesses and even eventually to slaves. This was the foundation for our testimony of equality.  And still today, Quakers continue to promote and empower the resurrection and the rising of marginalized people who are affected by unemployment, homelessness, homophobia, racism, disability, and so much more.

From our earliest of days, Quakers have and continue to believe another world is possible, and that world includes ALL people equally.  Friends have taken to heart  the words of the author of the letter to the Galatians, when she or he wrote,

 

 

In Christ’s family there can be no division into Jew and non-Jew, slave and free, male and female. Among us you are all equal. That is, we are all in a common relationship with Jesus Christ.” (Gal. 3:28)

 

Jesus Christ has risen. The women are rising, the poor and marginalized are rising, all humanity is rising, the earth and the cosmos are rising. New possibilities, new worlds surround us every day, and especially this day.

My prayer this Easter morning, is that we will ALL take those words of Wendell Berry to heart and believe and act upon the resurrection promise that another world is possible.   

 

Now, let us enter a time of waiting worship.  To do that, I would like us to ponder the following queries:

1.     Where is the Divine calling me to “rise up” or “take a stand” to show that another world is possible?

 

2.     Who do I struggle to find equality with in this world? How might I help bring “resurrection” into their lives, today?

 

3.     Where do I see “resurrection” taking place as we come out of this time of death known as the pandemic?

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3-28-21 - Seeing the Crowds in Community

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

March 28, 2021

 

John 12:12-20 (The Message)

12-15 The next day the huge crowd that had arrived for the Feast heard that Jesus was entering Jerusalem. They broke off palm branches and went out to meet him. And they cheered:

Hosanna! Blessed is he who comes in God’s name! Yes! The King of Israel!

Jesus got a young donkey and rode it, just as the Scripture has it:

No fear, Daughter Zion:
    See how your king comes,
    riding a donkey’s colt.

16 The disciples didn’t notice the fulfillment of many Scriptures at the time, but after Jesus was glorified, they remembered that what was written about him matched what was done to him.

17-19 The crowd that had been with him when he called Lazarus from the tomb, raising him from the dead, was there giving eyewitness accounts. It was because they had spread the word of this latest God-sign that the crowd swelled to a welcoming parade. The Pharisees took one look and threw up their hands: “It’s out of control. The world’s in a stampede after him.”

Good morning Friends, it is good to be with you again this morning. I pray this finds you safe and well.

This morning, even though it is traditionally Palm or Passion Sunday in the Christian Tradition and the beginning of what many churches consider Holy Week, we are going to continue to look at our Quaker Testimonies. The twist will be that I will utilize the story of Jesus entering Jerusalem to unpack briefly our Testimony of Community – again, all in relationship to our desire to bear one another’s burdens.   

To start, I would like to give a quick overview of where we have been in the last 4 weeks. After the Sunday I introduced the topic of “Burden Bearing,” we began an exploration of our Testimonies or S.P.I.C.E.S.  We have looked at Simplicity, Peace, and Integrity already and found the need to reflect both inwardly and outwardly on each of them. 

●       Simplicity helped us see the need to strip off the excesses so we could see our own and the burdens of others.

●       Looking at the shadow side of peace, we explored how violence, whether small or large impedes our ability to care for one another.

●       And last week we looked at the Testimony of Integrity and how it calls us to a personal wholeness and in turn draws us to help those around us find wholeness in their lives.

This week, we look at the Testimony of Community. Some may say that Community is the most essential Testimony to speak to the idea of bearing one another’s burdens.

Most Quakers would agree that Community is all about supporting one another in our faith journeys and in times of joy and sorrow; sharing with and caring for each other.

Yet to value Community, it also takes understanding what it is made up of. The text that Beth read of Jesus’ entry into Jerusalem points out on several occasions the enormity and diversity of the crowd. 

I would like to utilize this biblical story to highlight the different types of people found in all crowds and communities. Knowing who we are and why we come together, will help us better understand how we might be able to appreciate ourselves and those we are in community with. 

Our text points out that there was a “huge crowd that arrived for the feast” of Passover. It also notes that the disciples were among the crowd but missing fully what all was going on. The author of the Gospel of John also points out that this crowd included those who had been with Jesus when he called Lazarus from the tomb as well as the Pharisees who considered the crowds, as they said, “out of control.”

Already, just in the text we have a quite diverse group of people gathering around Jesus.  And if you read through the gospel accounts, you will find they have been gathering for almost his entire three years of public ministry. Some may go as far as to say that these people following Jesus represent the actual first church.   

Over the years I have studied the patterns and personalities of many groups of people. Actually, as a pastor one of my most difficult objectives is to discern the needs of a diverse group of people, and to do that takes both time to get to know people and a dedication to work alongside them. 

I am sure on occasion Jesus must have been overwhelmed with crowds of up to 10,000 people to speak to, meet needs of, and all while trying to convey a message of hope. It’s not that simple – especially when most crowds or gatherings are made of people with a variety of agendas, motives, and needs. 

Today, we have what are professionally known as Crowd Psychologists who are hired for the sole purpose of studying crowds and crowd behavior.

Especially during the pandemic, Crowd Psychologists have been utilized right here in Indianapolis for March Madness and the Final Four. Not only are they used for sporting events, but they are also used for parades, public demonstrations, marathons, and concerts of all sorts.

And yes, I have even known mega churches who have hired Crowd Psychologists to help them navigate and help spot destructive patterns, agendas, and motives that could manifest within their own membership.

When you specifically study the work of Crowd Psychologists, you find that they indicate five types of people that are found in every crowd.  Please note – almost all faith communities are considered crowds unless they are small enough to be categorized as a family unit (what we would call a small group or house group – even then larger house groups can have some of these same dynamics). 

For our study today, we are going to look at the crowd that followed Jesus into Jerusalem. The Rev. Margaret Minnicks has utilized these five crowd types to help us explore the make-up of Jesus’ crowd in Jerusalem, and how it relates to and resembles our own faith communities. The five types which most experts indicate are present are as following:

1.   The Curious

2.   The Confused

3.   The Pretenders

4.   The Opposers

5.   The Committed

The more you study these types, the more you begin to notice them in the crowds or communities you engage on a regular basis. You may even find yourself identifying with one of these types at First Friends.

If so, I ask you to ponder what that might mean for you and for how you engage those around you. If we at First Friends are seeking to build a faith community whose lives are integrated and seeking wholeness, we may find ourselves both challenged by the descriptions of these five types and where all we see them in and around us.

Let’s begin with The Curious:

In the text for today, the curious are the people that had seen Jesus preach, teach, heal, and even possibly perform miracles over a three-year period. These people had a curious mentality. They followed Jesus on his entry into Jerusalem because they wanted to know what he was going to do next. They were also curious about what was in it for them. Some went along with the crowd simply because they were hoping they would get a blessing being part of the crowd.

Often what draws a person to a crowd, or a community is pure curiosity.  Some find the curiosity sustains them for quite some time, maybe Sunday to Sunday or program to program, especially if they feel they are getting what they want out of the crowd or community.  Often when the curiosity runs out or blessings seem to cease, off they go to the next crowd or community.

The second type is The Confused:

The confused is illustrated in the Matthew 21:10-11 text of the Palm Sunday account,

"When Jesus came to Jerusalem, everyone in the city was excited and asked, “Who can this be? The crowd answered, “This is Jesus, the prophet from Nazareth in Galilee.”

Of all the things Jesus did and claimed he was, this one-line description wa in s all they could say. Even though they were following Him, they were still confused about who Jesus was.

The confused type refers to those who live on cliches and soundbites, instead of spiritually investing themselves to go deeper within themselves or within their community. They often are quick to quote scriptures or other texts as well as argue their points without taking time to know the context or ramifications of their words.

The confused crowd followed Jesus while not really knowing what he truly was about or what he was asking of them. They were confused because Verse 9 says they even went ahead of Jesus. I know for myself getting ahead of God, or thinking I understand what the Divine is trying to convey can leave me very confused.

The third type is The Pretenders:

The Pretenders were in the crowd on Palm Sunday pretending to be committed to Jesus. They were pretending, but they were not completely sure they knew what was going on. Pretenders often are those who go through the motions, but have a hard time fully committing. They often pretend just to impress others and to get their approval.

Abraham Lincoln said it best when he said, “You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.”

I remember at a church I served in Michigan, one morning we were having fellowship hour after the service, and a former pastor began sharing stories of what he called “putting on my church face.”  He shared how his family would fight all the way from their home to church each Sunday.  As they pulled in the church parking lot and he turned off the car, he would declare, “All right the fighting must end, it’s time to put on your church face and worship the Lord.”  Everyone in the car would pull it together and enter as if nothing happened that morning. Immediately after sharing, other people began to truthfully open up about their experiences of pretending or as one person labeled it, “Faking Ok.” 

The next type is The Opposers:

The fourth type includes the opposers like the Pharisees and the Sadducees. For three years they had done everything they could to oppose what Jesus was doing. They rebuked Him for healing on the Sabbath and for taking an ox out the ditch. They dismissed him because His disciples ate food without washing their hands.

Our text said there were Pharisees and (other texts say there were Sadducees, as well) in the crowds on Palm Sunday, and folks there are Pharisees and Sadducees within the body of Christ, still today. These are the people who work to trip others up and are always looking for things to debate, argue, and point a finger at. There were always some people in the crowds who opposed Jesus and this day was no different. There are always people who never see the good in a situation; only the bad.

Most of the time these opposers promote their own interests and their own agendas. They tear down God’s people instead of lifting them up or bearing their burdens just like the Pharisees and Sadducees of Jesus’ day.

The next type is The Committed:

The Committed is the last group and the one most people say they are in. However, this is usually the smallest group.

 

The Barna Group shows that the Committed in most communities are statistically less than 20% of the overall community. If you have been in the church for any amount of time, you have probably heard someone throw out what they call the “80/20 Rule” – that 80% of the work is done by 20% of the people. Sadly, there is a truth to this. Maybe you have heard it or said it this way, “Why do the same few volunteers seem to be doing all the work?”

 

Let’s be honest, as this “holy week” plays out in the scriptures, not even the disciples are found to be part of the committed crowd. 

 

I too, wish I could say I was 100% part of the committed crowd every single day, but that is just not true. I find myself often part of the Curious, sometimes wrongly promoting the Confused, Pretending, acting, and “faking ok,” and yes, even pointing fingers with the Opposers. 

 

The reality is that all five types of people can be found in me and probably in you, too.  The important thing to remember is each of these types are present within our community at First Friends. Thus, it should be our desire at First Friends…

 

 

…to promote the engagement of the curious.

…to provide clarity and education to the confused.

…to expose the pretending and embrace authenticity.

…to transform the opposers and seek unity.

…and to commit to the work of Christ and to the integration of our lives for the benefit of one another. 

 

This is what Jesus lived out for us. This is what Jesus would later this week be crucified for by people in this same crowd. 

 

Because when we begin to work on being more committed and seek to transform the crowds and communities in which we live, not everyone will agree, not everyone will join in, some will even work against us. But if we commit to moving forward and finding ways to bear one another’s burdens, then just like Jesus, we will actually bring resurrection – NEW LIFE – into our world – both our life and the lives of those around us. Just as Christ has done for us.

 

Won’t you join me in committing this week to work on bringing that Resurrection – that New Life – into our world through our community at First Friends?

 

 

As we enter waiting worship, today, please take a moment to ponder the following queries:

 

●       What “crowd type” would I most identify with, currently? (Curious, Confused, Pretender, Opposer, or Committed)

 

●       How will I commit

                   …to promote the engagement of the curious.

                   …to provide clarity and education to the confused.

                   …to expose the pretending and embrace authenticity.

                   …to transform the opposers and seek unity.

                   …and to commit to the work of Christ and to the integration of our lives for the benefit of one another?

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3-21-21 - Integrity: A Desire for Wholeness

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Bob Henry, Bob

March 21, 2021

 

Psalm 15 (Voice)

Eternal One, who is invited to stay in Your dwelling?
    Who is granted passage to Your holy mountain?

Here is the answer: The one who lives with integrity, does what is right,
    and speaks honestly with truth from the heart.
The one who doesn’t speak evil against others
    or wrong his neighbor,
    or slander his friends.
The one who loathes the loathsome,
    honors those who fear the Eternal,
And keeps all promises no matter the cost.
The one who does not lend money with gain in mind
    and cannot be bought to harm an innocent name.

If you live this way, you will not be shaken and will live together with the Lord.

 

 

Good morning, Friends! It is good to be with you once again in the comfort of your own homes. I pray this finds you safe and well.

 

For the last three weeks, we have been looking at our Quaker Testimonies (also what we often refer to as our S.P.I.C.E.S. simply because it is an acronym to help us remember each of them – and we Quakers are known to love our acronyms).  We have been taking time to explore these testimonies in light of helping to carry one another’s burdens. 

 

The first week, I did a brief overview highlighting each of these testimonies, then we spent the last two weeks looking more in depth at each one.  We started with the gift of Simplicity, and how it helps us to “strip off the excess” of our lives and get to the most important things – our relationship with the Divine and care for our neighbors. 

 

Last week, we looked at the Testimony of Peace, by exploring it’s shadow side, violence. Quaker Parker Palmer helped focus our thoughts and reflection by defining violence as “any way we have of violating the identity and integrity of another person.”

 

This week we move to the third Quaker Testimony (the “I” in S.P.I.C.E.S.) – Integrity.

 

 

The Testimony of Integrity has always been a central tenet of Quakerism. It encourages Friends to tell the truth, say what they really mean, and stand up for what they believe, even in the face of condemnation or conflict.

 

Some people would go as far as to say the Testimony of Integrity may, at times, feel like a stern taskmaster. This is because Truth can be slippery, or not very clear at the moment we need it to be. I know for me, at times, having the courage to speak the Truth can feel like a nearly impossible requirement, especially when dealing with sensitive topics in which people may disagree.

 

Sometimes our circumstances can be clouded by our deep love or concern for others. And on other occasions, it can be clouded by the possibility of selfish embarrassment or coming off as weak.

 

Integrity – just as the testimonies of Simplicity and Peace – causes us to wrestle both inwardly and outwardly with our responses. 

 

I sense when talking about integrity, most go to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary definition which says that Integrity is defined as:

 

 

The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, moral uprightness.

 

Some people in our world would quickly write this off as religious piety or Puritanism – which many Early Quakers were lumped together with for this very reason. 

 

But a further examination would find that integrity is rooted in the biblical concept of righteousness.  Again, this can be taken wrong and be viewed as self-righteous and pointing our fingers at those not as honest, moral or upright. 

 

Yet, if we take the time to explore the root of the biblical concept of righteousness, one will find a deeper, more useful, and I believe, much more profound concept – that being WHOLENESS.  

 

Righteousness in scripture is about making one whole in body, mind, and spirit – not better, or more holy, or more right-eous than others. It is about working to attain a wholeness personally and helping those around us achieve this as well. 

 

This is reflected so well in the Pacific Yearly Meeting’s Testimony of Integrity which reads:

 

 

“The testimony of integrity calls us to wholeness; it is the whole of life open to truth. When lives are centered in the spirit, beliefs and actions are congruent and words are dependable. As we achieve wholeness in ourselves, we are better able to heal the conflict and fragmentation in our community and world.”

 

Let me read that again…

 

“The testimony of integrity calls us to wholeness; it is the whole of life open to truth. When lives are centered in the spirit, beliefs and actions are congruent and words are dependable. As we achieve wholeness in ourselves, we are better able to heal the conflict and fragmentation in our community and world.”

 

If we are going to learn to bear one another’s burdens, wholeness seems to be the key.

 

For too long, Quakers have interpreted the Testimony of Integrity as guidance for how to operate in the larger world -especially as it relates to our business and societal practices.

 

Yet as the Pacific Yearly Meeting’s statement clearly professes, it must also be central to helping us discern what we are thinking and feeling in our hearts.  It must be both a desire for outward wholeness, as well as, inward wholeness. 

 

Actually, this statement from the Pacific Yearly Meeting is almost a call to each of us personally to work for wholeness in ourselves first. Quaker Rufus Jones eludes to this when he writes:

 

 

“Experience is the Quaker’s starting-point. This light must be my light, this truth must be my truth, this faith must be my very own faith.  The key that unlocks the door to the spiritual life belongs not to Peter, or some other person, as an official. It belongs to the individual soul, that finds the light, that discovers the truth, that sees the revelation of God and goes on living in the demonstration and power of it.”

 

If you and I have any hope to work effectively to alleviate or bear some of our neighbors burdens, we will need to first spend time examining our own motivations and beliefs and learn to live into the demonstration and power of God’s revelation to us.   

 

To do that, Wendy Swallow, a Friend in Reno Friends Meeting writing on the Testimony of Integrity says we need to ask ourselves some queries: 

 

 

·        Are we driven to action out of a sense of self-abnegation or self-aggrandizement?

 

·        Are we motivated by fear?

 

·        Are we listening to what the world would tell us, or are we arrogantly pushing our personal agendas and beliefs?

 

She also points out that the Testimony of Integrity doesn’t just prohibit lying to others; it also cautions not to lie to ourselves.  Before we begin pointing our fingers at the world around us, we must first center our attention on our own personal integrity and wholeness. 

 

I don’t know how often I catch myself making excuses, believing lies about my gifting or abilities, even cowering in fear hoping that what I am sensing from the Spirit would just go away. 

 

But how do we come to know and understand ourselves, to find the wholeness that will lead in the right direction?

My Friend, and fellow Quaker minister, Wess Daniels, says it has to be through what he labels the “practice of integrity” where we may begin to understand ourselves and find this wholeness personally and communally.  He says, 

 

  

The practice of Integrity is about both self-awareness and wholeness. It is born out of a community of practice committed to living integrated lives.

 

Practices and language develop out of that commitment that gives tools for understanding the self, my relationship to God and other people, the natural world, and material objects. A practice of integrity provides a kind of self-reflective mirror upon which I am invited to look at myself and my community and reflect upon whether my “Yes is yes,” and my “No is no.”

 

A practice of Integrity requires us to participate in an honest assessment of all areas of life consistent with our practice of worship and understanding of what God calls us to.

 

Wess, too, believes that this consistency is about having the inside and outside line up.

 

He warns that we should not use integrity as a claim upon another human being if we are not in constant practice of investigating our own lives under the same searching light. To do otherwise, he says, would itself lack integrity.

 

He goes on to reiterate that Integrity is about truthfulness. It is something we constantly strive for and yet never fully arrive at. Thus, he believes that to strive for wholeness is to be vulnerable; there is a confessional quality to integrity. We must claim our own integrity with great trepidation as we recognize that there is often a gap between our reality and that which we strive for, but if we undertake it within a caring community, we can trust that we shall be under this work of love together.

 

And when we put this in the context of bearing one another’s burdens, you can see clearly that this caring community is what we hopefully consider First Friends. 

A place where together, we are learning to trust, learning to recognize the gaps, learning to strive for wholeness and vulnerability together. 

 

We are to be this type of community that practices integrity by living integrated lives – integrated lives with each other, but then also with our neighbors, our community, with the hurting, the less fortunate, the oppressed.  This is how we bring wholeness (body, mind and soul) and how we help carry one another’s burdens.

 

I hope that when people consider our community at First Friends, they are finding themselves challenged, as well as, encouraged personally to seek wholeness. 

 

I hope that when people consider our community at First Friends, they are being challenged, as well as, encouraged by their fellow Friends within our meeting to strive for wholeness with one another.

 

And I hope that as First Friends together, we would be challenged, as well as encouraged by our fellow Friends to live out this integrity in a way that would draw the world around us into a wholeness of body, mind, and spirit and to a hopeful and promising life on this planet.

 

Now, let us take these thoughts into our time of silent waiting worship.  Also, I we will again offer the queries from Friend Wendy Swallow for you to ponder this morning.

 

·        Are we driven to action out of a sense of self-abnegation or self-aggrandizement?

 

·        Are we motivated by fear?

 

·        Are we listening to what the world would tell us, or are we arrogantly pushing our personal agendas and beliefs?

 

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